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Saturday 15 June 2013

A little-big boy and his imagination

Ads has always been a very imaginative kid. From the time he was around 2 years old, he indulged in a lot of pretend play although until Y came along he always expected someone to keep him company while he played. He's also passed through a fairly obvious and predictable trajectory as far as interests are concerned. Chronologically, they have been - construction equipment and heavy vehicles, emergency vehicles (fire-trucks and so on), tigers and other big cats, reptiles, dinosaurs, outer space, birds, and now cricket and superheroes!
Something that I've noticed with a lot of boys is that when they get interested in a topic, they dig deep and turn into a veritable encyclopaedia of knowledge on that subject! Their interest verges on obsession. I have never ever in my 7 years of being a mom (which is about when I started noticing these things!) seen a girl jump in so deep into any subject! I can't believe my sample set is too small or skewed - has anyone else observed this?
So, anyway, getting back to Ads. The joke around our home is that whenever you need to find Ads, just follow the sounds of what we call the Dish-bish. A vocal potpourri of explosions, snorts, roars, grunts and yells that express the imaginative space he is occupying at that time - a tiger stalking and hunting it's prey, dinosaurs fighting or Iron Man and Cap'n against a common enemy :) The package is generally accompanied by a lot of hand gestures and kicks so beware anyone who's at arms-length at the time!
Ads has been the recipient of many an amused and/or astonished look by onlookers when he goes Dish-bish on buses, trains and other public places. I still remember two little boys about the same age as him as we de-boarded at Jaisalmer railway station. We were heading towards the station exit. Ads was in his own world, utterly oblivious to the fact that we had landed at our destination. I walked behind him, holding on to my suitcase with one hand while steering him with another and ensuring he didn't bang into people. These 2 little boys watched, jaws dropping, as he approached them, eyes open but in a world of his own, making strange gestures with his hands, funny sounds with his mouth and with myriad threatening expressions rapidly flitting across his face :)
Every time he goes into his zone, the three of us collapse into giggles which take a while to penetrate his consciousness but when it does, he gets really wild with us :)
Another weird, funny, endearing thing about my boy!

9 comments:

  1. You are right about the depth of knowledge when it comes to boys. They do get really obsessed with anything they are interested in , be it trains, animals .. Girls are much more quiet in their playing .. Sometimes I feel stereotyping does prove right in most cases ..
    I can imagine the dish dish :) Have seen it in my nephews and yes it is really funny :)

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    1. And hope Bangalore is treating you well! I have been absent from the blogsphere for quite a while so giving you a late welcome note :)

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    2. So you've noticed it too, huh? Thanks for the welcome :) Bangalore is indeed treating us well so far!

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  2. This is so cute.. wish we had had a demo on the day we met :).. will look forward to it for next time! And yes, I think it might just be a "boy" thing ;).

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    1. He needs to be in the zone for the demo to happen!

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  3. Awwww, that sounds so very cute! :)

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    1. Err...CUTE is not a word that we are allowed to utter in front of him! He's not cute, only smart :)

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  4. I understand what you mean :-) I can see that happening with R in many ways.

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    1. Looks like a boy thing? Girls are imaginative but in different ways - and usually quieter :)

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